** DUES & MEMBERSHIP **
How much does this cost?
$60 for men and $35 for ladies. The fee includes a Dinner Buffet, Dessert Station, Snacks, Full Soft Drink Beverage Bar, Condoms, Lube, and Monthly Membership in Midwest Fantasy Adventures. There are no additional costs ever associated with our parties.
Return to top of page
Can I pay cash at the door?
Sorry, we are a members only club and do not have a door fee. All memberships must be paid online in advance with any major credit card. You can also use a disposable, non-traceable Gift 2 Go Visa Gift Card available at most Walgreens.
Return to top of page
How do I become a member?
When you register for each party, there is a fee for MEMBERSHIP and it includes Dinner, Snacks, Soft Drinks and Supplies. The one low fee covers it all. You become a member when you register and we do the rest.
Return to top of page
What if I don't have a credit card?
No problem. You can get a disposable Gift 2 Go Visa gift card at any Walgreens and most grocery stores. These are untraceable. Be sure to put a few extra dollars on it to cover processing fees.
Return to top of page
What if I don't want to have dinner? Can I get a discount?
You can attend the party without having dinner. However you must arrive prior to the doors closing at 8:30 pm and you must still pay the full membership price. We have no way of tracking who ordered dinner and who did not. We like to keep things simple.
Return to top of page
Are there any fees charged for sex? Are there any additional charges?
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! The small fee we charge to attend the party barely covers our expenses. We have a catering company provide a full dinner buffet for us. We also provide fresh fruit platters, cut-up vegetable platters, Doritos, Potato Chips, Pepsi, Diet Pepsi, Sugar Free Iced Tea, Lemonade, Coffee and Assorted Teas. In addition, we provide complimentary condoms and lube.
Return to top of page
Are there any additional charges?
NO! Your registration fee is all inclusive. There are never any additional charges.
Return to top of page
Can I get a refund if I decide not to come?
NO. We guarantee food and supplies based on your reservation and must pay for them whether you show up or not.
Return to top of page
Do you have a mailing list? How can I find out about future parties?
Just click the MAILING LIST button and add your info and subscribe to our list. You will be sent an announcement before we post to other lists so register ASAP when you receive the first announcement.
Return to top of page
Is this legal?
Yes. As a private, member's ONLY adult club, not open to the public, we can, as consenting adults enjoy sexual activities as a group. That is why you must pre-register, check in and show ID at the door to make sure you are on the members list.
Return to top of page
I work weekends, Are MFA Parties ever held on a weekday?
We have held Hump Day Parties in the past, but have not had very good attendance. If we find 5 ladies that will guarantee their attendance on the same Wednesday at 1:00 PM we would consider producing future Hump Day parties. Interested ladies may write us at mfaspecialevents@gmail.com. Please place the words "HUMP DAY" in the subject line.
Return to top of page
Am I registered? I did not receive a confirmation by email after I registered.
NO! Our event processing company, Eventbrite, sends an email confirmation within seconds of you clicking the ORDER NOW button and SUCCESSFULLY making payment. If you did not receive your confirmation, chances have it that you entered wrong information or there was trouble with your payment. If in doubt, call the MFA Office.
Return to top of page
Am I guaranteed entry if I pay membership dues?
YES! If you have registered and paid the current month's dues you are guaranteed entry to that months party.
Return to top of page
** ABOUT THE FACILITY **
Where is the party at? You state a North Shore Suburb of Chicago but I want a more specific location.
Sorry, for the privacy of all guests attending, we only release the address and city to registered guests.
Return to top of page
Is the party location easily accessible by car as well as public transportation?
YES. If you are driving we are just minutes from I-90, I-94 and I-294. We are also easy to get to by public transportation.
Return to top of page
Is there still room for me? How do I know if you still have space for me to attend?
Click the button on the left side of the home page that says REGISTER. Read the rules and click the I AGREE button. It will bring you to our secure Eventbrite page. The amount of tickets left will be shown at the top of the page.
Return to top of page
Can I wear street clothes to the party and change into my fetish or slut clothes once I am there?
Yes, we have plenty of room for you to do so.
Return to top of page
Can we stay overnight?
YES! MFA offers very nice Bed & Breakfast accommodations in the Host Facility. It is very affordable and include memberships for 1 or 2 persons, dinner Saturday night and a great hot breakfast Sunday morning. There are also several major chain hotels within a 10 minute ride of the party. After you register, send us an email and we will provide the info.
Return to top of page
Is parking a problem at the party?
NO. There is plenty of free street parking. We never have a problem.
Return to top of page
How often are these parties held?
Midwest Fantasy Adventures holds one Saturday gang bang party each month. We have recently begun having Sunday, day parties as well. Check the Calendar for dates.
Return to top of page
Can I shower and freshen up at the party?
Yes. There is a shower and bathroom just a few steps away from the Main Party Room. Please bring your own towel and toiletries.
Return to top of page
Can I smoke cigarettes at a MFA Party?
Due to the Smoke Free Illinois Act MFA is a NO SMOKING environment.
Return to top of page
Can you tell me about the beds used at MFA Parties?
MFA has purchased good quality 8" thick futon mattresses. They are soft on the knees and provide cushion, yet allow the "footing" needed for different positions without sinking in or moving. Our guests find them very comfortable.
Return to top of page
I'm too old to crawl around on a futon mattress on the floor. Can I just fuck on the couches or bend someone over a chair?
Sorry, No. At MFA we provide a very first class facility and environment for our guests enjoyment. We work very hard to keep it that way. We do not allow the use of any furniture other than the futons to have sex on, however there is a custom made sex bench for member use..
Return to top of page
Is the Bed & Breakfast a good deal?
Yes! The Bed & Breakfast option is a great deal. Unfortunartely we only have 1 Standard room available. They all INCLUDE a Single or Couples Registration, towels and a hot deluxe breakfast the next morning and all of the other amenities of the gang bang. When you consider what they include and what the cost of 2 memberships are this is a really great deal. You can see all of the B&B features by clicking the Bed & Breakfast button.
Return to top of page
** POLICIES **
What is your policy on Voyeurism? Can I just come to watch?
Male or female... If you are specifically coming just to watch, please see our Policy on Voyeurs
Return to top of page
What about Liquor? I like to get "in the mood".
We do not provide any liquor whatsoever. If you need it to get "in the mood" bring your own. Do not drink anyone else's liquor without their permission. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax", However, over indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in a gang bang, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle. Excessive use of alcohol is forbidden. Drunk guests will be asked to leave. Guests who arrive drunk will not be allowed to enter. The decision of how drunk is too drunk is at the sole discretion of the host. Please do not offer any other guests liquor because several of our members are in recovery.
Return to top of page
Can I bring drugs to the gang bang?
NO! NO! NO! We have zero tolerance of drugs at Midwest Fantasy Adventures and the use of any kind will not be allowed. The only exception is legally prescribed prescription drugs and pills for male enhancement such as Viagra and Cialis. Anyone suspected of being on drugs will be asked to leave. Guests who arrive under the influence will not be allowed to enter. This decision is at the sole discretion of the host.
Return to top of page
Do I have to wear a condom?
It is up to every gang banger to protect his/her self and his/her partner. The use of condoms should not offend any one, it is not saying one is dirty, it is simply a means to protect all persons involved. Anyone not willing to use a condom is selfish and irresponsible and is not welcome at Midwest Fantasy Adventures.
Return to top of page
Are cameras allowed at the party?
No. Not even cell phones. The host is the only person allowed to have a camera. We take 2 or 3 photos at each bang and ask everyone to turn your head away from the camera. You can also step out of the room for a moment when this takes place. You can get copies emailed to you by the host AFTER all faces (some people don't care and stare directly into the camera) and tattoos have been blurred. Your privacy is our greatest concern.
Return to top of page
Am I guaranteed sex if I join?
NO! Plain and simple. If you come to the party and no one wants to have sex with you then it won't happen. Everyone has the right to say no. Midwest Fantasy Adventures abides by the terms of Safe, Sane & Consensual.
That being said, it has never happened at one of our parties.
Return to top of page
Can I arrive late? Why do the doors close at 8:30 PM?
We give everyone a 1 1/2 hour window to arrive. We have one of our hosts at the door to greet you, check you in and make you feel welcome. During this time, people are enjoying a very nice buffet dinner and socializing. At 8:30 PM, we make a few announcements and people move into the play area, get undressed and play. We close the doors at 8:30 PM because it is very disturbing to the ambiance of the party to have people arriving late.
Return to top of page
Do I have to use my real name to register?
We are a Members Only Club and so we need your real name when you register, however, you can use any name you desire at the party. Your information is kept confidential and is NEVER shared.
Return to top of page
Can I bring a friend?
Yes. But ONLY if they are pre-registered. If they have not joined prior to 6:00 pm the day before the party or prior to us selling-out then they cannot attend. Everyone must be on the Members List at the door to be admitted.
Return to top of page
Sometimes due to stress and age, I cannot get an erection. Is it ok to just please the woman orally?
We hope that everyone attending a MFA Party plans on participating sexually. If you can't and your MD says that you are not a candidate for Viagra or Cialis then a gang bang is not the place for you.
Return to top of page
If you have my name on your list and I have already attended a party do I have to register again?
Yes. Each person must join and renew their membership each month for each party.
Return to top of page
Can you give me any advice on party conduct?
BE COURTEOUS - Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. We all want to be treated with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding, sensitivity and courtesy. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden Rule.
Return to top of page
BE FRIENDLY - Whether or not you are personally interested in someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.
Can I have bareback sex... I really hate condoms?
NO! Safe sex is required at all MFA parties for penetration. No ifs, ands or buts!
It is up to the ladies sole discretion if they want the men to use a condom for oral sex.
Return to top of page
Is male on male sex allowed?
No! Currently all MFA Parties are straight man on woman parties, However, if we had enough interest in a bisexual or gay party we would consider producing such an event.
Return to top of page
Can I keep my shoes on during the bang?
No! To avoid injuries to our naked participants, no shoes of any kind can be worn in the play area.
Return to top of page
Can females play with females or men with men?
The primary focus at MFA parties is male/female, however we have had some women play with each other in the past. Male to male contact is not allowed.
Return to top of page
Is Bukkake allowed?
Yes it is, however, the primary focus at MFA parties is male & female sex.
Return to top of page
** GANG BANG ETIQUETTE ** (Please Read The Gang Bang Etiquette Page)
Do I need to bring anything?
Please bring your own towel (or rent one from us) and toiletries for showering. The ladies appreciate freshly showered men! If you are allergic to latex, we always keep a dozen or so latex free condoms on the premises, but you may want to bring your favorite brand as well.
Return to top of page
What about hygiene?
The main thing that will turn your potential partner off may be bad breath or body odor. Have a shower before leaving for the party. Pack what ever you may need such as a toothbrush, toothpaste, mouthwash, breath mints, gum, brush or comb, perfume or aftershave, TOWELS, etc.
Return to top of page
What if someone tells me "No"?
Do not be pushy. If you want to have sex with someone just ask them in a nice, polite, inviting way. If they say no, just say "thanks anyway" and do not push the issue. Do not ask them why, as this could be embarrassing and hurtful. If they decide not to have sex with you, do not carry on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them, as this may do a lot more harm than good. Do NOT take personal offense if you are rejected (and it happens to everyone, including women). Rejection is a very personal thing, and it’s almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected. Being honest with each other is crucial, and who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation right.
Return to top of page
How do I say "No" to someone?
The most basic and important thing in gang bang party etiquette is the right to say no. A simple and polite "No thanks, but thank you for asking" is all that is required. There's no need to explain.
Return to top of page
Can I discuss this great gang bang with my friends?
NO. Everything you see, hear and do at MFA stays at MFA.... PERIOD.
Everyone attending a Midwest Fantasy Adventures Gang Bang Party expects their privacy to be respected and gives it in return. Some things are just better left unsaid. We demand absolute discretion and you are entitled to the same. Discretion is paramount in this lifestyle and privacy is imperative! Never, ever discuss details inappropriately. Everything you do, everything you see, MUST remain private.
Return to top of page
Do people have conversations?
Yes, but please do not disturb the erotically charged environment and enjoyment of others. If in a private or group room, do not disturb the others with prolonged or loud talk. This is very mood-destroying and very annoying! Please keep your conversations, other than erotic talk with your partners during sex, to the Social Area.
Return to top of page
What if I can't "perform"?
It happens. Getting undressed in front of 30+ people can be stressful to some people, let alone getting a hard-on and having sex. Hopefully, there will be an experienced lady there to make it right for you. Just relax, let it happen and enjoy. Worse case scenario... you attend, have a nice catered dinner, socialize, and meet some great people. We understand that things happen sometimes and try not to confuse this situation with voyeurism.
Return to top of page
How man times can I have sex at the party?
As many times as you can get it up. Many of our members come back for seconds, thirds and more with several of our ladies. It's all about the ladies pleasure so the more you "perform" the better.
Return to top of page
Is there a dress code?
Yes. Women should look hot and sexy. Club clothes or mini-skirts with a low cleavage top work well. Men should be dressed for a party, casual to dressy. NO sneakers, T Shirts, Jeans or ANY RIPPED CLOTHING.
Return to top of page
Can I leave the party early or can I attend, have dinner, get a "quickie", and leave?
The party goes until 1:00 am. Leaving the party before midnight is disruptive and rude. We frown upon "one and done" and "2 minute wonders" that "cum & go" within the first hour of the bang. If this describes your behavior, then a MFA gang bang is not for you. Please be courteous of others attending the party.
The ladies who attend MFA Parties want, expect and deserve men who can go the distance. Although we have no set rule about the time anyone leaves the party, we frown upon people leaving before midnight. We understand when an emergency arises, but if this happens more than a couple times, you will not be invited back to attend a MFA Party in the future.
Return to top of page
Is there opportunity to socialize at the party?
Yes. We have a great social area on the main floor of the facility, however we ask that conversations be kept low because loud voices and laughing interrupt the gang bang in the next room.
Return to top of page
Do you have any advice for the men?
Show up on time, attend the social hour, be prepared to have fun and respect the rules. Performance anxiety can be an issue for some guys as well. This is not uncommon at all, so be prepared for it. You may wish to avail yourself of Viagra or similar drugs to last a bit longer. If you need to step back and just watch for a few minutes, that’s perfectly fine.
Return to top of page
I am a female and want to know if I attend, will I be required to have sex with every man at the party?
No! Woman can refuse anyone and set their own limits (i.e. no anal, swallowing, etc.) as well as request any desired fantasies.
Return to top of page
Can men perform oral sex on a lady?
Yes. But only with the lady's permission.
Return to top of page
Should I shave my pubic hair?
Whether or not you shave is a matter of personal preference. This applies to both men and women.
However, if you plan to shave, please do so on the day of the party to avoid prickly stubble that will irritate your partners.
Return to top of page
** WHAT TO EXPECT **
What is a gang bang?
When multiple partners, usually 3 or more, engage in sexual intercourse with a single consenting partner. In the case of Midwest Fantasy Adventures, we maintain a ratio at each party of 5 women to 30 men.
Return to top of page
What should I expect when I arrive?
When you arrive, you will check-in at the reception desk and be greeted by one of our hosts. You will then proceed to the Social Area and Meet & Mingle with like minded people, have dinner and socialize. After dinner, there will be a few announcements at which point everyone proceeds to the Party Room to begin the Gang Bang.
Return to top of page
What should I wear?
As with any party you might attend you want to look your best. We suggest the ladies wear their sexiest outfits and men wear casual/dressy clothes. Even though they don't stay on long, it's all about the seduction during the social hour prior to the Gang Bang. Dress to impress.
Return to top of page
Do I have to participate?
The whole idea of a Gang Bang is to participate and contribute to the ladies' pleasure. Because we have a very limited amount of attendees we allow to register for each party, we hope everyone is coming with the intention of participating.
Return to top of page
Will my limits be respected? There are things I don't want to do.
YES! Everything we do at Midwest Fantasy Adventures is Safe, Sane and Consensual. If there is something specifically that you do not want to do, let our host know at check-in or send us an email in advance.
Return to top of page
Do I have to get naked?
Yes... how else do you plan on having sex? No self respecting gang banger will give you the time of day if you just unzip and expect oral sex only. All men MUST get naked. We leave this option open to the ladies since some like to wear very skimpy lingerie.
Return to top of page
What about STDs? (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)
We provide complimentary condoms and lube at our parties and require all men to use them. We also can provide dental dams and female condoms on request. Although no sex is 100% safe, the practice of safer sex with the use of condoms greatly reduces the risk.
(If you are allergic to latex, please bring your own condoms)
Return to top of page
Will there be naked men near me?
Yes... Please don't be homophobic. If you are going to be participating in the double penetration of a girl, guess what, you will be touching another guy. There is no way a girl can fuck a room full of guys without the guys occasionally touching each other. That means your cock might come in contact with someone else’s. If you’re homophobic or have an aversion to these kinds of things, think twice before you register to attend.
Return to top of page
Can I play privately?
Not during the gang bang party! We ask all of our guests to participate in the open gang bang area during the party.
However, many of our Bed & Breakfast guests continue the party in their room AFTER the gang bang party ends. ONLY Bed & Breakfast guests have an after-party private place to play.
Return to top of page
Will I get one girl all to myself?
NO! This is a gang bang. Do not expect this to be a date. You are coming to a party where women expect and want to have sex with multiple partners. It is doubtful that one-on-one sex will occur at a MFA Party.
Return to top of page
What should I expect to see?
Come with a *very* open mind. We are a group of non-judgmental adults who enjoy sexual hedonistic activities with multiple concurrent partners. Please be aware that you will witness open acts of fornication and oral copulation at this party. You will see lots of different kinds of people engaging in many different sexual acts. People tend to "pull out all the stops" at MFA Parties, and some of the action can be very unusual, erotic, enticing and exciting. It's all good, and it's all for our hedonistic pleasures.
Return to top of page
Is it a good idea to surprise my partner with a gang bang?
NO!!! Please do not think you can bring your partner to a MFA Party and "surprise" them and expect them to participate. All persons attending a MFA Gang Bang MUST have full knowledge and consent. We have had people do this in the past and their partners were not very happy and refused to participate. If you bring someone to a MFA Party without their knowledge and consent and we find out about it, you will be asked to leave and not be allowed to return.
Return to top of page
What should I expect my emotions to be?
Be prepared for an incredible high during the party and possibly a sadness that it’s over when you get back to the "real world" after the party. Expect to be amazed, surprised, delighted, shocked, startled, amused, and to experience a whole range of intense emotions. Sensory overload and unexpected emotional reactions are a common side effect of Gang Bangs. If it gets to be a bit too much, find a quiet corner to sit in and just watch for a while. Or, find the MFA Hosts and talk to them about how you're feeling. Then go back to the party and jump back into the pool!.
Return to top of page
How does the party start?
After the Dinner/Social Hour ends at 9:00 PM, the doors are closed (no late arrivals are allowed past 9:00 PM) and the Club Host makes a few announcements and explains the ladies limits and fantasies. At the end of these announcements, the words "let's get naked and play" are spoken and within minutes the party is in full swing.
Return to top of page
Should I attend the Social Hour and Dinner before the Gang Bang begins?
YES! We strongly recommend that you arrive when the doors open, have dinner and socialize. This is a great time to meet all of the ladies, other participants and Hosts while your clothes are still on and before the lights go out. Spend time flirting and getting to know each other, enjoy the fantastic catered dinner and help yourself to non-alcoholic drinks from our extensive Beverage Bar.
Return to top of page
** WHO ATTENDS **
What Is The Age Of Persons Attending?
Persons of all ages attend. We have members who attend on a regular basis in their 20's up into their 50's and up.
Everyone is welcome as long as you participate.
Return to top of page
How do you choose who gets to attend?
Memberships are on a first come, first served basis. We Sell-Out FAST so join our mailing list and when you receive the monthly party announcement, we suggest you register ASAP.
Return to top of page
What are the ages, sizes and races of people attending your party?
We have had great parties and never judge a book by its cover. We have had members as young as 20 and as old as 60. Skinny to Rubenesque, Tall to Short and every race imaginable. We are non-judgmental and welcome everyone. No matter what your size, age or race, come party with us!
Return to top of page
What kind of people attend MFA Parties?
People from all walks of life attend MFA Parties. White collar, blue collar, police officers, judges, attorneys, factory workers, mechanics, businessmen, executives, office workers, laborers, housewives, married couples, singles, not-so-single and an ambassador from a foreign country have all attended our parties in the past. The beautiful thing is that when we are all naked, everyone is equal and EVERYONE IS WELCOME!
Return to top of page
I am attending by myself, will I feel left out?
Not at all. Our very friendly Hosts will introduce you to other guests and make you feel welcome. People at our parties are very friendly. You will be surprised at how comfortable you will be.
Return to top of page
Can couples attend together?
Yes. We always allow a few couples to attend up to the limit of 5 females per party. We suggest you register EARLY because female spots sell-out fast.
Return to top of page
The registration page says you are SOLD-OUT, can you make an exception for me?
Sorry... we have a strict limit on attendees and always sell-out fast. We do, however, keep a Waiting List and will call you if something opens up. (People get sick and life gets in the way once in a while.) Make sure you put accurate info on the waiting list. In the past we have been given transposed phone numbers and email addresses and had to pass someone by on the waiting list.
Return to top of page
You are SOLD-OUT... Do you have a Waiting List?
YES. When the registration page sells out it automatically begins a waiting list. Click the box under the ticket types to be wait listed. Make sure you give accurate information including name, email and phone number. Many times people have missed their space on the waiting list because we could not reach them. Once you are on the list we will call you if a space opens up.
Return to top of page
Can I see pictures of the girls that want to get banged?
NO... plain and simple. We respect everyone's privacy and we do not ask anyone to provide photos to us. Most times we cannot even tell you what a person looks like because we don't meet them until the night of the party. We have been producing gang bang parties for decades and have never had a party where there wasn't something for everyone.
Return to top of page
I am a single female attending for the first time, any advice?
At MFA, we pride ourselves on making all newcomers feel safe, secure, at ease and WELCOME!!! If you are feeling nervous, feel free to call us on the phone and speak to one of our Hosts or Greeters. There is usually one of us here to answer your call and answer your questions. On the night of your
first gang bang, we will personally show you around and introduce you to other guests. Join Midwest Fantasy Adventures and become a party of the "family".
Return to top of page
I am disabled, Can MFA accomodate me?
We will make every effort to make your MFA visit as enjoyable as possible.
However, for safety reasons, if you have difficulty navigating stairs or walking on mattresses unassisted, MFA is probably not the right venue for you. We are a private, members only club and we are NOT a handicapped accessible. Email us at party@midwestfantasyadventures.com if you have any questions or concerns.
Can a woman attend an MFA Gang Bang Party and only perform oral and not have intercourse?
Yes, This is called being a fluffer. We welcome fluffers that want to attend our parties.
Return to top of page
I am of an ethnic minority, are all races welcome at MFA Parties?
Yes, Our membership consists of a very diverse group of people and everyone is welcome!
Return to top of page
Return to top of page |
